WEAK PEOPLE RELY ON EXCUSES
Part of being a success is taking responsibility for your actions. According to Love, that applies to your wins and your losses. Regardless of the outcome, he says, “Don’t make excuses for yourself. Don’t even make excuses for the people around you, just make it happen.â€
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DREAM CHASERS AREN’T AFRAID TO MOVE
Sometimes your environment may be what’s holding you back. If your industry thrives in another state (or country) that’s where you need to be. “Go to where the action is,†Love says. “If you’re in North Dakota and you’re trying to figure out why you’re not getting on, maybe you need to leave North Dakota. Go to where the people are doing what you love successfully.â€
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COMPLIMENTS ARE NOT CURRENCY
Success is a long road. It’s the difference between being rich and wealthy. Just because you are doing better than some people, who admire your work, doesn’t mean you’re the best. Remember, there’s always someone ahead of you. “Don’t be caught up in the hype,†says Love. “Don’t start believing in compliments and how great you are.â€
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YOUR COMPETITION IS YOUR MOTIVATION
“Always focus on the people that have done 50 million times more than what you’ve done, and look at that as a goal so that way you’ll never be able to start feeling yourself after you have a little success,†says Love. “Understand that there are a lot of people ahead of you that did it way bigger than what you did, and try to shoot for that. Babyface had 160 No. 1 records. That trumps my seven last year.â€
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CHOOSE YOUR ADVISORS WISELY
As much as we’d all like to do it on our own, we sometimes need help. When building your support team always select people that make you better not worse. “Keep the smartest people around you,†says Love. “Don’t be afraid of that. Don’t be too proud to have those people in your corner who make you look good.â€
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