Connecting with former bosses helped Atlanta-area IT specialist Marleen Graham‘s job search this year. Graham hesitated to contact a former boss last year. This was the person who gave her first break in the IT field, and it had been almost 10 years since they’d spoken. Would he even remember her?
He did more than remember her: He referred her to a company he knew was looking for an IT person. Graham got an interview and very nearly got the job–then the company instituted a hiring freeze.
Here’s how to harness your former bosses for future career success:
Find the Fit
Before reaching out, decide what you want out of your next job, said Promise Phelon
Don’t Wait
Graham waited months to tell people she was looking for work. Once she did, she regretted the delay. “They said, ‘If you had contacted me two months ago, I knew someone who was hiring and I could have gotten you in at this company,’†she recalled. “Now I let everyone know what I’m looking for, and I’ve had many job interviews through my network.â€
Let Tech Talk
Graham has even started her own networking group. Success Through Networking has nearly 600 members on LinkedIn, including former bosses and a previous employer’s senior executive. You don’t have to start big, though. Instead, Cheryl Palmer, a Silver Springs, Maryland, career coach, suggests connecting with former bosses individually through LinkedIn. No one will be surprised if they get a email or phone call as a result of being on the site.
Tailor Your Dialogue
When contacting a former employer, don’t start out with a request for help. Start by asking him what he’s doing career-wise. “It’s obvious for him to then ask what you’re
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Circle the Wagons
That should include a five-year plan, said Phelon. “If your network knows you’re trying to go from being a finance manager to a vice president of finance in five years, you can get people to rally around that,†she said. “It’s easier than asking your network, ‘Can you forward my resume to so-and-so?’ You may ultimately want to do that, but once you have bosses rallying around your vision, they’re much more likely to be supportive in the execution of that vision.â€
Keep in Touch
Now that you’re reconnected, maintaining this relationship is the name of the game–both to make it an equal relationship and to cultivate mentors who may guide your career.
Give Back
- Share articles and industry-specific information with former bosses.
- Give them an opportunity to share their expertise by asking for suggestions for how to handle situations.
- Offer to connect former bosses with people who could help them.
“Put it on your calendar just like any other work task,†said Palmer. “On a quarterly basis, do something for your former bosses: send them an article, check in on how they’re doing. It doesn’t have to be time consuming. It keeps your name in front of people.â€